Wednesday, April 22, 2015

MUST READ!! Every Woman's Worst Enemy In Life

When I hear females saying things along the lines of "I'm not friends with too many women because they're too much drama," I can't help but cringe. After years of experiencing all kinds of female friendships both good and bad, I've asked myself the same question over and over again. Why do women hate each other?

The truth is, most females, no matter how old they are will tell you that they've survived at least one type of mean girl in their past. Whether it was a situation that dealt with putting someone down, being dismissed, ignored or even socially tormented, they all seem to boil down to one thing- hatred. I just don't understand it.

For some people they say that it has gotten worse in the past few years considering the increase in bullying, but this issue has been around for ages.

Most women had one thing in common: they had great pain when they gave birth to their children. This should make a bond that held them together, it should make them love and protect each other against the man-world. But it was not so. It seemed like their great birth pains shrank their hearts and their souls. They stuck together for only one thing- to trample on some other woman…whether it was by throwing stones or mean gossip. It was the only kind of loyalty they seemed to have. As long as I live, I will never have a woman for a friend. I will never trust any woman again, except maybe mama."

If this doesn't break your heart, I have no words for you. Why do some of us seemingly hate our own gender? As women we should be allies to each other, not be taught to hate and compete with each other. Why should this be the case?

There's just a plethora of confusion that makes absolutely no sense. Honestly, I think the hatred for other women comes from within. Once a woman hates herself, it's easy to get her to hate another woman. I say this because if a woman who hates herself sees a woman who seemingly doesn't hate herself, it's easy to project the internalized negativity onto her. Think about it. How many times have you heard, "Who does she think she is?" "She's not all that anyway" "Why is she so full of herself?" This is true for all humans, not just women. It is human nature.

It pains me to think that we have this mentality. Society has us pitted against each other and seems to want to keep us from being whole and healthy as individuals and as a group. We should be and need to be celebrated by each other so that we can stand united and fight against injustice toward our gender. Women should empower each other instead of being so hateful towards each other.

This feels like an uphill battle, but I believe that we can and will be able to make it to the top. It starts by loving ourselves and loving each other

Source: Laila

FINALLT!!! Baby Rafeeq Atanda Recalled Back to The UK

Little Rafeeq Atanda, the British-Nigerian boy deported even after his mother spent years making a heartbreaking appeal for her son to be allowed to stay in the UK – because he was born there has received reprieve.

The Home Office has been ordered to bring a woman and her son back to the UK after they were deported.
In an unusual move judges told the department to organise the return of the mother and the five-year-old British-born boy from her native Nigeria.

They found that in ordering the pair's removal from the UK in January, the Home Office "failed to have regard to (the child's) best interests as a primary consideration".

After agreeing to a judicial review of the case, the judges ordered the Home Secretary to "take all reasonable steps" to ensure the mother and her child's return.

LMAO SO TrUE!! Major Difference Between An IgBo and Yoruba guy

Lol I know a lot of coded rich Igbo boys icant even argue this facts , abi na lie?

EXPOSITO!! Major Reasons Why President Jonathan Fired IGP Suleiman Abba

The Inspector-General of Police, Mr Suleiman Abba, yesterday, became the first major casualty of the just concluded general elections, which President Goodluck Jonathan and his party, the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, lost to the opposition.

The police officer, who was elevated to the post only last year, incurred the wrath of the Presidency on the eve of the governorship and House of Assembly elections for allegedly arguing with the government officials over the directive to recall the Assistant Inspector-General of Police in Charge of Zone 6, Tunde Ogunshakin, from Rivers State.

Abba, Vanguard reports, had deployed Ogunshakin from his base in Calabar to Port Harcourt to
oversee the governorship election in Rivers State following complaints by Governor Rotimi Amaechi of Rivers State, that the police had collaborated with the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, and the PDP to intimidate APC members and rig the presidential and National Assembly elections in the state.

His refusal to pick calls over Ogunshakin's recall

Another source said the former police boss reportedly ignored presidency official's objection to the deployment of Ogunshakin to Rivers State on the allegation that the police officer was sympathetic to Amaechi and his party and would, therefore, not allow the PDP win the state.

A Presidency source told Vanguard that on learning that the IG had defied its order by redeploying Ogunshakin to Rivers State to supervise the governorship elections. A presidency official called the former police boss to recall the AIG with immediate effect from Rivers State or face the consequences.

The source said the presidency felt slighted when it could not get through to Abba.

The former police boss reportedly told the Presidency that AIG Ogunshakin was a formidable Police officer whom he described as a 'no-nonsense officer' feared and respected in the Police Force hierarchy and capable of ensuring law and order in the place of new assignment.

Vanguard learnt that although the sacked IG reluctantly recalled Ogunshakin from Rivers State, forcing him to quit Port Harcourt by 5 am on the election day, Presidency did not forgive Abba for redeploying Ogunshakin reluctantly.

Presence at Buhari's certificate of return presentation

Another sin of the former IG was his presence at the presentation of the Certificate of Return to Muhammadu Buhari at the International Conference Centre on April 1, 2015, which convinced the Presidency that the IG was actually working for the opposition and it moved quickly against him.
Arase replaces Abba.

The Senior Special Adviser to the President on Public Affairs, Dr. Doyin Okupe, could not also be reached for comments on the development.

Abba's sack was announced by the president's spokesman, Reuben Abati, in a statement yesterday. No reason was given for the sack while a Deputy Inspector-General of Police, Solomon Arase, was appointed to act in his stead.


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VIDEO: Leave South Africa in 14 days or get killed – Leader of #Xenophobia to foreigners

This controversial video is causing a lot of rage on the net, though some have claimed the man is not South African ,

According to the report reaching us , it says ''This South African man who claims to be the gang leader of xenophobia in the country says he initiated the killings.

He says his troops will not stop killing foreigners, giving them 14 days to leave.

According to him, he killed 7 Gambians yesterday.

"The pride I feel when I kill a fellow black man, I can't even express it," he said.

Like In The Movies!! Love Stoned meek mill Plans Fairy Tale Lavish wedding For Nicki Minaj

This relationship is amazing to me, at first I thought it was a show off but multiple consistent acts have now reduced my skepticism
Deeply in love Meek Mill plans to give Nicki Minaj a fairytale wedding. According to E! an insider privy to the details said for the actual wedding, these two aren't going to waste any time and notes that Meek wants to make sure he offers a memorable day for his bride-to-be.

    "The wedding will likely happen sooner rather then later, it's just how their relationship has been going, Nicki has been waiting for this special day for some time and Meek wants to make it perfect and a fairy tale come true for her. This is such an exciting time in her life."

OFFICIAL!! Late Senator Uche Chukwumereije to be Buried May 22

Senate President David Mark signing Late Sen. Uche Chukwumerije's Condolence Register, at the National Assembly in Abuja on Tuesday (21/4/15). Left is the Senate Leader, Sen. Victor Ndoma-Egba. 
Late Senator Uche Chukwumereije will be given a heroic burial on May 22 in his country home Ngodo Isuoche, in Abia State.

The burial date was contained in a letter from the family of the late Senator Chukwumereije which was read on the floor of the senate during the plenary. 

The Senate President David Mark described late Senator Chukwumerije as national hero who was a pan- Nigerian in all ramifications. And told the bereaved family at Senator Chukwumerije's house in Abuja that the late Senator was a nationalist and an unrepentant crusader for the respect of human rights and rule of law. 

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

Wow!! 'Robbers Gave Me N200 for Pure Water On The Road'--Trekker Suleiman Hashimu

Suleiman Hashimu, will no doubt enter the Guinness Book of Record as the first man to trek from Lagos to Abuja. And in a new interview with newsmen, 'The Traveller,' as he is now called, a native of Katsina State, has talked about his over 2 weeks journey.

According to Hashimu, he was in Lagos when Buhari was announced the president-elect of Nigeria, so he left Lagos at about 5am the next day and arrived in Ibadan around 6pm.

Narrating his ordeal to newsmen upon his arrival in Abuja, Hashimu said he had gone to get a police report at Ibadan to allow for an unimpeded journey, but that as he could not wait for the processes to
be completed, the divisional police officer (DPO) gave him his phone number.

The journey man said when he first embarked on the journey, many persons discouraged him, especially family members but he never gave up.

He told journalists that in Ilorin, people accompanied him for several miles until he stopped at Oloru, where he received much hospitality in Jebba. He said unlike other villages, he met people who had heard of him.

He further explained that about 20 people set off with him from Jebba and after some miles, 18 turned back, but the other two were more strong-minded and followed him.

The Traveller narrated how they encountered armed robbers close to Mokwa, but that, fortunately, he had already met one of them in Jebba and the would-be robber ended up giving him N200 for 'pure' (sachet) water.

Hashimu said he continued his trip from Mokwa to Kudu, then from Kutigi to Bida, and then to Suleja, after which arrived in Abuja yesterday.

Upon his arrival in Abuja on Monday, many residents were already waiting to receive him. When residents of FCT saw him, the chorus of Sai Buhari rented the air.

Hashimu Suleiman yesterday received a horse as a gift from the Agora Of Zuba, HRH Mohammed Bello Umar.

Good Morning!! Iyanya just Shared this Hot Bathroom Selfie From Germany

He is got it dou,

Thirst trap alert! Who amongst us here needs deliverance to see how sexy and drool worthy all them tattoos on Iyanya are?

LMaO , How Close Is This PHoTo??

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SOMETHING COOKING?? Photo Of Don Jazzy And Jay Electonica In The Studio

These two are Veterans in the production and music business n so you can only expect a classic from any collaboration they come up with

Music Premiere : Saint x Eezychris - Maria (prod by dicey)

The wait is over  Talented acts Saint and Eezychris puts head together to make a banger titled MARIA which was produced by Dicey. ...